如何成为我心目中白马王子心目中的白雪公主？

朋友或身边的热心的人都曾经问过我，为何不找个伴？当我回答没人追呀，都没人信，然后就会说可能是我的要求过高。这样的事反复的发生，我也开始怀疑自己是否不切实际。我是不是若不将就点，就注定孤独终老？与此同时，我还不断地对身边的人说，我宁愿自己一个人也不愿再来一段不快乐的感情。

Opera talk about Aha! moments all the time, but I haven't really noticed me having one (probably I did, but I wasn't conscious about it). It happened two days ago, when I least expect it. I was having an ordinary day, casually walking to a shopping complex from the MRT station. As usual, I would look around and observe people I see. Details like what they are wearing, how they walk, how they talk, how they look are things which I would pay attention to and process in my mind. Then I will think to myself if they are perfect or how things could be improved. What can be changed to improve their overall score in my mind?

Suddenly, it flashes in my mind that if I could see myself now, I would have failed miserably. That thought spin off to more thoughts and led to the following conclusion : I haven't been taking care of myself. Not because I couldn't, or that I didn't have the time, but simply that I didn't have the motivation to do so. An Aha! moment : I don't love me anymore! Can't remember when this started, but with each passing day, I drift further away from my idea of a perfect woman.

I have decided to love me more.

Deep down inside, I know that I have the making of a perfect woman (at least MY idea of a perfect woman), but my laziness seem to win everyday. This is no longer acceptable. Today will be the first day of my journey toward being the perfect woman.

Step 1 : Vision Board
Set up a vision board and keep it in my mobile so I could be reminded & motivated by the life of my dream